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Thursday, June 16, 2011

What is a friend?

The word friend is defined at a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard. I personally take it one step further. A true friend is someone you can trust, who won't lie cheat or deceive you,  who is there for you through thick and thin, the good and the bad. They are a person you can talk to or a person you listen to. I believe that I am a really good friend. I may not be the best of friends, but I am always reachable.

Recently, I was forced to discontinue a friendship and I am not sorry. This person was going through a rough time and I was ALWAYS there to listen and to give advice. Some things went down that had NOTHING to do with me as an individual, however, I felt like a victim that was stabbed in the back. I was lied to several times during the whole ordeal. 

What really pissed me off about the whole situation is that this "friend" continued to call and text me as if nothing had changed. I kept listening to her and her absolutely ridiculous bologna and when I never got an apology, I finally told her I had enough and was done with everything. Was I wrong? I don't think so. 

I try soooo hard to be a good friend to all of my friends and think I do a pretty good job. I love and appreciate the friends I do have considering most of them disappeared when I had my first child. Like everyone else, I don't appreciate being lied to and stabbed in the back. I also don't appreciate not receiving an apology when it's due. 

To the "friend" this is referring to, should she read it: Good luck to you with your drama-filled life. You have lost a good friend and, not to be a bitch, but I hope you realize it and it bothers the hell out of you. Karma is a bitch and what goes around, comes around. Always remember that. When you see my face, I hope it gives you hell. 





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